Quantum mechanics is on my side because according to QM there is no set past, present, or future. There is no you and no me. We have infinite potentials and can be everywhere and nowhere at the same time. We are matter, energy, particles, and wave forms. Our consciousness forms us. There is a biology of belief: my neuroplastic brain can communicate with my body, allowing my thoughts and perceptions to alter my environment. Our consciousness and our physical material world are intertwined. I, as the observer shape the nature of my physical reality. If quantum mechanics is on my side, then it must be an ally of my suffering addicted husband as well. The universe is a mystery and yet I feel hopeful.